In Focus with Dennis De Almeida '11

Thank you for joining In the Lead, Dennis. Can you tell us about your professional journey — from your time at Seton Hall to your current role as managing corporate counsel at Brighthouse Financial?

I’m glad to participate and to have the chance to reminisce about my time at Seton Hall.

When I started at Seton Hall, I had a strong sense that I wanted to be a business lawyer, so I used my undergraduate years to stress-test that belief through my classes and work experiences. I majored in Finance and minored in Legal Studies, which gave me a solid foundation. My first job during undergrad was working as a paralegal at a small law firm focusing on personal injury and real estate. It was a crash course in the practice of law. Because it was a small firm, I was given a lot of responsibility and direct client access early on. I learned so much from that experience, but my biggest takeaway was that I preferred transactional work over litigation.

To broaden my perspective, I interned in the treasury department of Wakefern Food Corp., which gave me valuable business exposure. Then, in the summer between undergrad and law school, I landed a unique legal internship at Verizon reporting to one of its segment general counsels, thanks to connections I made through the Leadership Development Honors Program. That gave me my first meaningful insight into what in-house attorneys actually do.

I enjoyed my time at Seton Hall so much that I decided to attend Seton Hall Law. During those years, I worked as a graduate assistant for the Leadership Program as well as for the Legal Studies Department, and I kept my summers free for internships. The summer after starting law school, I worked as part of MetLife’s investments law team, which was pivotal. It was exactly the kind of role I dreamed of after graduation, but the catch was that in-house positions like that usually require six to eight years of experience. The next two summers, I did summer associate stints at Porzio Bromberg & Newman, P.C. and then Simpson Thacher & Bartlett LLP.

After law school, I kicked off my career at Simpson Thacher, which was an exceptional training ground. I was surrounded by some of the smartest, hardest-working people I’ve ever met, and worked on high-profile transactions that pushed me to be my best. I rotated through private equity fund formation, mergers and acquisitions, and capital markets groups, ultimately settling in private funds.

After a few years there, a former colleague from my MetLife internship reached out about an investments lawyer position at Brighthouse Financial, which had just spun off from MetLife and was building out its investment function. Although I was still early in my legal career, they valued my experience and potential and took a chance on me. I started as their only investment attorney and dove right into big projects, like implementing a new outsourced multi-manager investment model and strategic transactions. Eight years later, I’m still tackling complex, interesting matters as the primary attorney supporting the investment management function for Brighthouse Financial’s $120 billion general account. It has been an awesome journey so far.

You’ve built an impressive career that has led you to your current leadership role in investments law at Brighthouse Financial. What experiences or decisions most shaped your path along the way?

There have been many experiences that shaped my path, but the Leadership Development Honors Program at Seton Hall stands out as a real game changer.

The program really ignited a fire in me. It pushed me to be more ambitious, outgoing and focused than I initially thought I could be. Being surrounded by such driven, smart and passionate students and professors turbocharged my aspirations.

Beyond the classroom, the program provided countless quality networking experiences with business executives who were incredibly generous with their time and wisdom. Through that exposure, I made lifelong professional relationships and met mentors who have helped me in so many ways, whether through opening doors for internships, like my roles at Wakefern and Verizon, or simply teaching me how to navigate the professional world.

This issue of In the Lead focuses on ethical leadership. How do you personally define ethical leadership, and how has that definition evolved over the course of your legal career?

I define ethical leadership as acting with integrity, honesty and transparency. Simply put, it’s about doing the right thing and leading by example. I’ve been lucky to have positive role models throughout my life who demonstrated what that looks like in practice.

My core definition of ethical leadership hasn’t really shifted over the years, but how I live it out and influence others has evolved substantially. Early on in private practice, as a junior associate, I was mostly on the execution side, following instructions from partners or senior associates and implementing client requests.

Now, working in-house, I feel I have a much more prominent seat at the table. The business team asks for my feedback not only on legal decisions but often on commercial matters as well. This allows me to push for ethical considerations that are important and shape outcomes more directly.

In corporate law — especially in investments and financial services — ethical considerations often intersect with business goals. How do you navigate situations where legal, ethical and commercial interests might not perfectly align?

I see my role as an in-house attorney not as a roadblock, but as a strategic partner focused on safeguarding the company’s long-term success. When legal, ethical and commercial interests appear to conflict, I step back and consider the bigger picture,

My goal is always to help the business achieve its objectives, but in a way that is sustainable, compliant and aligned with our values. If a proposed path carries too much legal or reputational risk, I don’t simply say “no.” Instead, I explain the nature of the risk and collaborate with the team to identify alternative solutions that meet the same business objectives.

Often, when I lay out the potential consequences, the commercial and ethical interests tend to align because no one wants to take undue risk for a short-term benefit. Ultimately, success depends on open communication, creative problem-solving, and navigating gray areas with integrity and sound judgment.

Given your experience across both private law firms and corporate counsel roles, how have you seen the expectations around ethics and compliance evolve within the legal profession?

When I worked in private practice, ethics and compliance often felt reactive, focused on technical compliance, structuring deals to meet requirements, or troubleshooting issues after they arose.

Now, as an in-house attorney, the expectation feels different. We have a culture of maintaining the highest ethical standards that is baked into everything; it’s not just a box to check. We proactively weave ethics into our processes, whether it’s regulatory matters, investment decisions or day-to-day operations.

More broadly, I think the profession has shifted toward viewing ethical lapses as significant business risks rather than minor missteps. With social media and instant news cycles amplifying everything, reputation has become even more important. Companies increasingly recognize that being perceived as an ethical player isn’t just good governance, it’s essential for long-term success.

Was there a particular experience or mentor at Seton Hall — perhaps through the Leadership Development Honors Program or your time as a graduate assistant — that significantly influenced your approach to leadership and ethics?

I had many mentors at Seton Hall who helped shape me, but the one who stands out most is Mike Reuter, the former director of the Leadership Development Honors Program.

Mike has been both a mentor and a dear friend to me. He showed me what great leadership looks like by doing it; he truly led by example. He always motivated me to stretch myself, challenging me to run leadership initiatives and engage with executives when I was just a student.

I worked for Mike as his graduate assistant for four years, so I got to see the ins and outs of how he ran the program. I was always impressed by his compassionate communication, the respect he showed for others, his vision and his rock-solid integrity. The most telling thing about Mike was that he was the exact same person in front of our leadership council as he was behind closed doors. That consistency is something I try to emulate in my own career.

If you could offer one piece of advice to your younger self — or to students preparing to enter the legal and corporate world — about maintaining ethical integrity in their careers, what would it be?

Don’t be afraid to listen to your intuition.

School was great at teaching me how to analyze, rationalize and argue every side of an issue, but oftentimes, my initial gut reaction has served as my best ethical guide. If something feels off, it often is.

So, ask questions and push back when you are unsure of something or feel uncomfortable. Your professional reputation is your most valuable and portable currency. You can change jobs, firms or industries, but your reputation travels with you, so don’t let anything tarnish it.

*The views expressed here are not purported to represent those of Brighthouse Financial.

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In the Lead magazine is a collaboration between the Buccino Leadership Institute and the Stillman School of Business’s Department of Management. This edition reaffirms Seton Hall’s commitment to fostering innovative, ethical and impactful leadership. Stay ahead of the curve — explore the Spring 2026 issue of In the Lead.

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